What's priority, relationship or baby??? That was a question I had to find an answer, and the logic one for everybody is "both". But, how to balance u new life as a mom and as a wife?? www.parents.com says something very true: No money, no sex, and no time. This isn't how you pictured parenthood with the man you love.
I was in a mission, and still are, on how to make it work. It is hard and I'm asking for anyone here to give their insight about this topic.
So far I found out that babies need attention, so do men, [probably more than babies]. How to extend the time to breast feed, clean, cook, laundry, take care of yourself, husband and baby, and so on is very tiring to even think about it, and add to the mix 2 dogs and 2 cats. Everyday there is a new challenge u have to deal with and the outcome it depends on u mood more than logic [after baby mood is usually not so good].
Here some of the things I deal with every day:
Sleep deprivation
Different opinions about parenting with my husband.
Lack of intimacy
Double load of responsibilities/chores.
Among others... It is always good to talk to someone that has gone through the same situation since this things can be overwhelming, like a friend, mother or even online on a parenting forum, take advices, apply them according to u situation and try to get through the day with no less than a B, it is hard but not impossible.
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