Wishing to have a baby as the next step in a relationship is what every couple looks foward as a way to make you relationship move foward, stronger, solid, become a family that will last for ever. That's what you wish for. But what happens when things go a diffeerent way, let's say life gets in the way, nature gets in the way. In my case, nature was the problem since my body was not abble to work with me into that next step in my relationship. and then there it is,,,,, infertility. Well, is not fun for sure that nature decides for u, and what to do when that happens was for sure the biguest question with no answer I'll ever face (at least for that moment) .
In our case, lots of stress trying to figure out where is the problem and how can we fix it or just move foward without taking that step. And of course we tried to fix it as anyone would do in order to have a family and what came with that was nerve racking months of money spending, travels, tests and pain (at least for me since most of these tests are painful, but you take it as a woman with a mission). The result??? The most beautiful thing ever, My 7.3lbs baby girl.
If you are in the same train, you have two options, have a baby (natural way, insemination, invitro, adoption, egg donor, sperm donor, surrogate) or don't have a baby. We decided to have one, with limits on how to do it (no egg or sperm donor, no surrogate, but open to the idea of adoption, insemination or invitro), and it was the best decision since I was abble to get pregnant with my husband's baby through an invitro procedure!!!!! The most important thing is to thank God all the time. I'm a big believer that everything and anything happens because he wants it to happen. The clinic that God put on my way, after visiting many clinics and doctors, is http://www.newhopefertility.com/.
Ask with faith and believe, God always answers.